This Picture was taken April 18, 1959 and is the only picture that I have of my whole family. Back Row L-R - Michael, Wilton (Dad), Fairabelle (Mom), Tia, Allen, Roberta, Front Row L-R Connie, Richard. The Penland Family
Tia, Connie and Richard Penland on Christmas Eve, 1962 at our home on Rush Creek, Feather River Canyon, California
I hope you enjoy this journey through my past with me. The memories, short stories and recollections here are mine and mine alone. The may or may not be 100% as others see of saw them, but they are mine and from my perspective.
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The World According to Richard
Collectors.My Mom and Dad were both collectors and they
collected so many things it always reminded me of our home being like a
museum.Neither of them had more than an
8th grade education, but they were better educated (self educated) than most
people I have met in my life.I am sure
from their life experiences and self education that both of them had the
equivalent of at least a Masters in Liberal Arts and probably my father close
to a BS in Geology in addition to that.
I can remember several
professional geologists that were friends of his.As a child, I would sit and listen to their
many conversations.My father was far
better educated in that field than most of them and they often came to him for
advice.
I am sure I could say the
same about my mother and antiques.She
was consulted by many people about her knowledge of antiques, but as a young
boy, I didn't listen to her conversations with the same enthusiasm as I did
with my father and his friends, because geology and mining was a love I shared
with my father.
Musicians.My Mom was probably one of the most talented
musicians I have ever known.When we
were kids going to high school and brought home an instrument (Me - Trumpet,
then Drums), (Connie - Clarinet) and (Tia - I am not sure), she could always
play the instrument within a few minutes.I know for sure she could play guitar, piano, accordion, banjo,
Bandello, mandolin, harp, drums, trumpet, saxophone, clarinet, French horn,
drums, harmonica, and there are probably some I have missed.She played all of these instruments by ear
and she could also play sheet music if necessary.My Dad was not really a great musician, but
he loved to hear my Mom play and sing and I remember his singing to me on the
way home from work many times.He could
play the harmonica and the Jews harp also.I have tried to play both and could never play either.I always loved to get together with my Mom
and get her to play her guitar and sing for me.She taught me to cord on the Guitar a little and she always said which
ever one of us kids learned to play the guitar is the kid that she would give
her guitar to.I still have the guitar,
but I don't play it very often.
After my Dad died, I found myself singing one
verse of a song he used to sing to me over and over each morning in the shower
and I couldn’t get it out of my head for about five years.So finally I posted a note with the words I
could remember on an internet newsgroup.I got an answer the following day with a link to the lyrics.As soon as I got all of the lyrics and sang
all of the way through the song, I was able to shower in the morning in peace
and not have to sing part of the song each morning.The song is called “Was it Rain” by Francis
Langford as follows:
WAS IT RAIN By: Frances Langford
Skies were gray that rainy day We parted in the lane; Was it tears that fell or was it rain? There we stood as lovers would; Did parting bring you pain? Was it tears that fell or was it rain? I couldn`t tell if your eyes were misty, Or if you felt regret, I noticed when you kissed me That both your cheeks were wet. Till we meet again, my sweet, That mem`ry will remain. Was it tears that fell or was it rain?
Gardening.When my Dad and Mom decided to have a garden,
my Dad and I started to haul river sand into the yard across from the
house.I remember many Saturdays spent
with him going to the river and shoveling by hand a pickup truck load at a time
onto the truck and then going home and shoveling it off.Many Saturdays we would do this ten or
fifteen times.We also used to stop by
the river on the way home from work in the summer and get a load and take it
home and shovel it off into the garden.Dad kept track of how much we hauled home and it went to 315 before we
stopped.After the river sand, came the
fertilizer and we went to the Plumas County Fairgrounds and they had a huge
pile of manure and straw from the livestock shows they had there every year and
over one summer, Dad and I hauled home over 100 truck loads of that and spread
it over the garden.Then each evening we
would turn the manure and sand and the following year, Mom planted a garden on
it.I remember the vegetables were
fantastic and especially the hills of potatoes.The first harvest, there was one hill of potatoes that yielded over 40
pounds of potatoes and they got one potato that weighed around 5-6 pounds (I
may be exaggerating a bit here, I will have to check the pictures).
Snow and Cold.I miss the snow we had when we were kids
living at Virgilia Mine.I remember
there were times when I hated it too, like when I had to shovel 4-5 feet of
snow off of the 450 foot long driveway.Depending on how deep the snow was, I can remember it taking all day if
I was lucky or if it was really a heavy snow, sometimes two or three days.I remember my back was always hurting when I
was done even if it only took a day to finish shoveling it all off.The snow shoveling memories have faded away
mostly, but the fun we had sledding on the side of the hill are still strong
memories.When we got a big snow 2-3+
feet, we would go out and pack down the snow with our feet or shovels and then
before we went to bed, we would take my Dad's 5 gallon spray can and go spray
water on top of the packed snow.When it
froze over night, we could sled down the hill on that sheet of ice and it was
really fast.We always built a jump (big
pile of snow that was smoothed over) near the bottom of the sled run for those
of us that were more daring.
I
can remember one time when there were three of us on a big inner tube (from a
big truck tire) when we went down the sled run.Tia was in the middle of the tube and I was on one side and someone else
was on the other side of Tia.When we
went over the jump we got airborne and Tia's head went through the whole in the
tube and when we came down, she got her nose scraped up pretty bad.I am sure
if you asked her today, she would still say she always had a good time, or at
least most of the time anyway.I am sure
there were times when I got hurt as well, but that never stopped us.Sometimes in the winter, Dad would tie a rope
on the back of the truck (when it had chains on) and tow us on the sled
behind the truck.
There
were some times when the water froze in the water pipes and we would catch rain
in a rain barrel or haul snow in the house and melt it on the stove to use for
flushing the toilets of for drinking water after it had been boiled to kill the
germs.This would also mean Dad and I
would be our walking the water line and building fires on it (it was mostly
steel pipe except where it went over the creek).Sometimes we would have to dig through the
snow and ice to get to where we could build a fire on the ground over the
pipe.Of course we had to carry dry newspaper
and firewood with us along the pipeline to build fires
with.The
water pipe line went from our house up RushCreek and across RushCreek
on an overhead cable and up Rich Gulch for nearly three quarters of a
mile.That is a lot of pipe to thaw out
when it freezes.When it freezes in one
spot, the whole thing freezes as well.
Wood and Wood Stoves.I remember going with my Dad up on the
logging roads to gather firewood.You
know, we used to fill the wood shed every summer with wood and by the end of
the spring, it was mostly gone.My Dad
would always help get the wood, but from the time I was six years old, chopping
and carrying the firewood in for the cook stove, heater stove and fireplace was
always my responsibility.I had to do
this every night after school so my Mom would have wood all day to keep the house
warm, cook on, and heat the water for cleaning and bathing.One day I measured the wood shed to see how
much wood it took to fill it.It was 12
feet wide by 12 feet high by 24 feet long (the length of the house where the
recreation room / fire place / sewing room was).That is 3456 cubic feet of wood when it was full.A cord of wood is 4 feet by 4 feet by 8 feet
or 128 cubic feet, so that means when the wood shed was full there was 27 cord of
wood in it (3456 / 128 = 27).That was
how much wood I had to split and carry in every winter.There were times when I was not home because
I stayed in town or sometimes at your house and my Dad would do those chores for
me and he never once complained like I used to when I was younger.Sometime between the time I was 6 years old
and 12 years old, I finally figured out it did no good to complain about this
to my Mom.I still had to go do it
after I complained.
My
Dad had installed an extra water heater tank before the electric water heater
and the cold water supply line ran into the back of my Mom's wood stove and
through the fire box.From the fire box
it ran into the first water tank and was hot or at least pre heated before it
went into the electric hot water heater.This saved a lot of money heating the cold water for us.The wood stove my mother cooked on was an old
O'Keefe and Merritt with the warming ovens over the stove that pre-heated the
plates for dinner and kept food warm after it was finished cooking but also
kept it from drying out (sort of like we use the microwave for now).There was nothing that compared to coming
home from school and opening the door to the smell of Mom cooking bread.I remember she always used to make two or
three pans of buns because she knew us kids couldn't keep our hand off of the
bread if she didn't.
Christmas and New Years.When we were small, my Mom used to sit us
down before Christmas and make all of us kids cut different colored paper and
make paper chains and paste them together using white paste.When our paper chains were complete, we would
use them to decorate the house and Christmas Tree.She also made popcorn and taught us to take a
needle and thread and string the popcorn for decorations.We did the same with fresh cranberries.Many times before Christmas, she also would
sew pot holders and then iron on light colored blue stencils and we would take
different colored applicator pens and color them to give as Christmas
presents.
Earlier in the season, we
would hike along the Power Lines and collect any copper wire that the linemen
had dropped or discarded and carry it home in our backpacks.Additionally, I would go to work with my Dad
in the summer and go around the job site after work and pick up all of the
copper wire scraps that the electricians left from wiring the houses.We would take it home and burn the insulation
off of it or strip it off if it was easy and put it with the rest of the copper
stash we had collected.Once a year, my
Dad would get it all together and take it to the salvage yard in Oroville and
sell it to them.He would then split the
money up between us kids, so we would have money for Christmas Presents.I think sometimes, he and Mom would add a
little to it before we split it up.I
know that both Mom and Dad often went without so that us kids could have things
we needed.
I
wish now that I had spent more time around both of them, but I had my calling
and had to go off and experience what I read about in the National Geographic Magazine as a child. My parents both believed in us kids doing whatever it was that we set out to do as long as it did not harm us or others, so at seventeen years old and two week, I thought I had outgrown my parents and set out to seek my fortune.I
was always restless and needed to go see everything for myself more than any of the kids I grew up around. As a kid, I thought nothing of riding my bike to Quincy or
Greenville and can remember Tom Schmid and I riding from my house on Rush Creek up to Round
Valley Lake and fishing all day and then riding into Greenville and back to my
house in one day.
The Rope Swings Papa Made For Us.All of us loved to play with rope swings when we were young and my
father was always there to make these types of experiences the best they could
be for us.The first rope swing he put
up for us lasted about 4-5 years before we out grew it because it was not fast
enough or high enough, so my father climbed up in a real tall oak tree and put
a metal shackle through a “Y” in a large branch and hung a big thick rope over
it and then built a platform and a shorter rope so that we would start off
higher.When you went off of the
platform, and went all the way out, you were nearly 30 feet in the air.
Coming of Age.I quit school after the 10th
grade and never looked back.In High
School, I only had General Math.When I
got in the Marines, I went back to school at night and in three months, I
finished my High School Diploma (not a GED).In 1977, I finished my 4 year tour in the Marines and went back home and
went to work with my father, working for Barlow Construction, doing concrete
work.After about a month working with
my father, I told him, he should get his contractor's license and I would run
the operation for him.He laughed and
said he was not interested.He told me,
go get your contractors license and that he would run it for me.Well, it didn't happen that way, because PlumasCounty
could not support the level of achievement I wanted, so may father and I never
worked together on this.Within a year I
got my contractors license and was running a concrete business in Southern California and working 7 days a week, 16 hours a
day.During that 7 year period, I stayed
focused on making lots of money and I managed to average 10,000,000 square feet
a year on my hands and knees.I got
really good at it and made lots of money, but after 7 years doing concrete
work, I started having problems with my knees and the Doctor told me if I
didn't get off of my knees, that I would not walk when I was 50 and when I
started thinking, I realized I hated doing this work.In June, 1983, I told June (my wife) that I
wanted to go back to school and get a job where I was not on my hands and knees
all the time.Without an income, I
really couldn't just stop work and go back to school and with a concrete
business going 7 days a week, 16 hours a day, I really didn't have the drive to
try to go to school at the same time.
Future Subjects:
The House
at Virgilia Mine.
My Friends.Tom Schmid, Ron Schmid, Scott Lawson, Larry Forcino, Butch Forcino,
Dennis Forcino, Kenny Risley, Mike Risley, Lee Folla, Eddie Heater, Bobby
Batchelor
My Parent’s Friends.Harry and Hazel Forcino, Ed and Celine Becker, Dixie and Earl Hamilton,
Bud and Lee Geddis, Wayne Batchelor, Andy Tidwell, Hilder Hockenson, Ed and
Emmy Hammerick, Eva Eyraud, Earl and Clarita Fischer, Scott Kelley, Chick
Chichester (Stories, the Apple Ranch, the Claim, Goats, Horses, Apple Picking,
Apple Cider, Drivers Training),
The Old Stump.
My First Fish.
My First Deer.
The Back
Road.
My Bicycle
The Mini-bikes and Motorcycles
Learning to Drive. (Starting the 1952 Chevy Pickup at
Rich Bar on the hill at 8 years old, Dad giving me the keys when I asked,
getting stuck the first time, Knocking out the corner recreation room support
post with the truck, Cats in the engine compartment of the truck on a cold
morning)
My First Car.It was a 1972 Chevrolet Biscayne, two door, straight six cylinder, the
clutch, the gear shift, the engine) that I bought from Edna Shafer after her
husband Frank passed away
Hundreds of Miles of Back Roads.
LassenPark.
Trains.
Ed and Scotty Taylor
Swimming and Diving. (VirgiliaBridge,
White Rock, Terry Riffles)
Catching Crawdads.
Riding the Rapids in Winter.
Camping and Hiking.Camping in a Cave.
The Virgilia Mine.
Pensacola, Florida and Naval PhotographySchool.
MCAS (H) Santa
Ana, California.
MCAS Iwakuni.
Home Again.
Reno, NV
The Women in My Life
The Birth of My Children
My Children’s Personalities
Raising My Children. Virtual
Web, Inc.In the fall of 1996, I was
on active duty in the Marines and had been selected for Gunnery Sergeant and
had submitted the last application for Warrant Officer that I could submit
because of my age and time in service limitations. I had been screened for
the possibility to be sent out on Recruiting Duty the year before and would
have gone, but because June and I were buying a condo in Hawaii and a home in
Virginia, the Marine Corps Recruiter Screening Team said I was not eligible,
due to our financial status.This
determination was made because on recruiting duty a Marine is living on the
economy and there is not support like the PX, Commissary, Medical and Dental
that a Marine has when they are stationed aboard a Marine Corps Base.
In August,
1993, the results of the Warrant Officer Selection Board were released and I
was not selected.I sat down with June
to discuss what I needed to do to be able to take care of my family and how my
Career would go.It didn’t seem to be
too big of a problem except that the Marine Corps had taken Warrant Officer off
of the table.My normal progression
would have to be either a promotion to Master Sergeant where I could stay as
technical in the IT field as possible until I could retire which was still 5 ½
years away or promotion to First Sergeant where I would plan on staying in the
Marine Corps until my forced retirement of 30 years of service.
I had worked for the last
10 ½ years to become the best Network Engineer in the Marine Corps and I was at
the top in my field.We decided it would
be better for me to go for the promotion to Master Sergeant and stay
technical.That way I could get a good
job when I retired and we would be able to send the kids to college at that
time.
Then,
in September, 1993, without warning, the Marine Corps, issued me orders to
report for RecruitingSchool / Recruiting Duty
on March 1, 1994.I was due to re-enlist
in July, 1994, so I either had to accept the orders or I would not be allowed
to re-enlist (basically forced out of the Marines).I thought the Marine Corps had made a
mistake, especially after screening me the year before and listing me as not financially
secure enough for Recruiting Duty because of us making payments on two homes at
the same time. I went home and June and I
sat down and discussed our options.If I
stayed in, I would be sent on Recruiting Duty for a minimum of three
years.During this time, I would lose
all of my technical skills in IT because these change every 6 months.I would probably get promoted to Master
Sergeant on recruiting duty and when I was finished, I would probably be put in
an administrative job in the IT field until I could retire (2 ½ years
later).At that point, my employment
options as a civilian would be very limited and if I did get a job in IT, it
would probably be an entry level position.
We decided to wait until
after the holidays to make a decision and that I would call the Special
Assignments Monitor at Headquarters Marine Corps to see what my options
were.We also decided I would start
sending my resume out and see what options that would give us.
After
a month of submitting resumes, I had gotten several inquiries and even had a
company fly me to San Francisco
to work for them for 2 weeks to see if it were a good fit for everyone
concerned.I took 2 weeks leave and went
to San Francisco
and worked for the company and at the end of the two weeks they were impressed
with my skills, happy with the way I treated their customers, and they made me a
tentative offer.I told them thanks but,
I needed to discuss this with my wife and we still had six months before it was
critical for them or for us.
I got promoted to Gunnery
Sergeant on January 1, 1994.So, right
after the holidays were over, I called the Master Sergeant, Special Assignments
Monitor (the person that handles these types of decisions) at Headquarters,
Marine Corps to find out what had happened or if there had been a mistake made
that cut me orders without screening me again.When I got him on the phone, he said, “Gunnery Sergeant Penland, we gave
you a year to clean up your financial crisis, now either take the orders or plan
on getting out instead of re-enlisting in July, 1994.”I was a bit angry at that point and after
trying to discuss this with him for a few minutes, I was angrier and told him,
“Top, I have two words for you.” He asked me what those two words were and I
told him, “Fuck You!”He said, “You
can’t talk to me that way” and I said, “I just did and there is nothing you can
do about it.It is just your word
against mine” and I hung up on him.